eloping
so since i have to go through all of the hassle of replacing every important form if identity that i have ever possessed i was thinking.... that now would be a great time to elope. then i could just change my name while i was at it. i am available tomorrow afternoon. so give it some thought. love is after all a choice, unless you are calvinist. in which case you still believe that love is a choice...just not your choice.i often wonder about my commitment phobia and i am contemplating if a very rash decision to elope may be the only way that i could ever decide that getting married would be a good idea...shock value is after all so much fun! so while i might be kidding, i might be serious. you decide which shoe fits.